What you’ll learn:
- In my work as elite dating coach in Switzerland I boast a high success rate for my clients.
- It hasn’t always been like this – I started out as a dating agency and the approach was not as effective.
- Applying science-based strategies to my dating programs has made all the difference for my clients.
- For dating coaching to work, you need to be committed to make an effort.
- Book a free consultation to see how working with a dating coach can help you find love.
As a dating coach in Switzerland, I’ve been working with single professionals for over 17 years and can boast an exceptionally high success rate. Over eighty percent of single lady clients and 100% of the gentleman clients I work with are in a happy relationship by the time their contract ends.
But it wasn’t always like that.
What successful singles need from a dating coach
After years of working in HR, I knew there was a need for successful singles to find love. So many incredibly businessmen and women would come into my office and tell me about their incredible lives but so many were missing the same thing… love. Their drive and focus brought them so much of what they desired in life, but it left their personal lives on the back burner. I knew this was something I could help with.
Before I launched SuccessMatch in 2005, I did a market study and asked my target group of highly successful single professionals what it was they needed from me to succeed in their personal lives and find the right life partner. Nearly all the responses clearly said that all they needed was for me to set them up on dates.
This confirmed my hypothesis that my target group of successful single professionals was simply too busy to find partners and so, I started out working like all other dating and matchmaking agencies.
Why matchmaking alone doesn’t work for successful singles
For years I interviewed thousands of single professionals and introduced them to each other, giving them all exactly what they wanted.
I coordinated lots of dates. Some of the clients did get married, some of the clients did end up in happy, lasting relationships, however: when I looked at the percentage of clients who were in a relationship by the time their contract ended, the percentage was incredibly low.
I had hoped that as time went by that this success rate would increase, but it didn’t. It was completely flat and very low.
It became evident that to help singles transition from where they are when they contact me, to in a happy relationship with the right person, it takes a lot more than a simple date.
Science-based approach to dating
I still felt confident that I had identified an important problem but finally accepted that I would need more information to find the right solution. I went back to school to learn more about the science and psychology behind dating, matchmaking, and relationships.
This process completely transformed my business and the way I work with clients. My science-backed, proven method takes a holistic approach to find love. My methodology is based on the three main pillars of
- Being the right partner
- Finding the right partner and
- Choosing the right partner
and boasts incredibly high success rates.
Most matchmakers and dating agencies use the business model of providing an agreed-upon number of introductions and have low success rates. Since I worked like that in the past, I know this all too well. The success rates I have now that I work in my new, holistic approach, are much higher than industry average.
In a recent interview, I was asked a question that my peers ask me time and time again.
‘‘What is the #1 thing that has made you so incredibly successful?’’
I understand that it would be wonderful if there was a magic bullet that would be responsible for the incredible results that we get at SuccessMatch, however, the truth is that there isn’t just one thing but rather several factors that contribute to that success.
Why my approach is so effective?
Here are some factors that contribute to my success and how they can help YOU find love.
- My background, extensive experience and education in the science and psychology behind relationships and matchmaking.
As you can imagine, my extensive background and studies have been a huge contributing factor. After all, my own success came once I realized that helping people transition from single to in a relationship takes a lot more than simply a date. Understanding the psychology behind dating, relationships and coaching clients is important. I also found that the more success I had, the easier it was for me to fine-tune all aspects of my coaching.
Each of the pillars that I teach (BEING, FINDING and CHOOSING the right partner) has been considerably researched and fine-tuned to become the incredibly successful, science-based date coaching and mentoring program that it is today.
It is critical to go through all the steps to make sure you’re set up for success before you even meet people and already have the skills to build and maintain a relationship once you do.
In my experience the singles who come to me ready to put in the necessary work are the ones who find success so now, those are the singles that I am privileged enough to be able to choose to work with. Being open to EVERY part of the process is truly fundamental.
How does this help YOU?
Your attitude going into this journey is half the battle. As you begin looking for a partner, be as open as possible to any work that you can do on yourself. Be open to feedback and make it your mission to try anything that might help you grow and succeed. This outlook alone will make you a more attractive person to potential partners from the start.
- I only work with clients who are motivated and committed to finding a partner
Like my clients, I am selective in who I choose to work with. For me to take on a new client I know that it must be the right fit. I agree to only take on people I personally like and respect, who are 100% serious about wanting to succeed in finding a partner and 100% committed to doing the work necessary to get the results that they want.
This might seem obvious, but you’d be surprised by how many people want to skip over the coaching aspect of the program (and what creates a strong foundation for success)
I frequently hear, “I’ve already worked with therapists and read tons of self-help and relationship books, so I won’t need that kind of support.” Sure, all of these things will give you a head start but yes, you do need to commit yourself to all parts of the work, ensuring we have covered everything to set you up for success and that you no longer have any blind spots left for the full experience and best results.
My clients take responsibility and are fully invested in the successful outcome of our project.
How does this help YOU?
My most diligent clients show up and execute even if they’re scared or unsure of how things may turn out. If you’re like many of my other clients you’ve had lots of professional success and just need a little extra help transferring the driving skills that you’ve used to gain success in the rest of your life to your personal life. These skills that you already have are the greatest tools to get you the best results.
- I care about clients and am deeply committed to their success.
I have over thirty years of experience working with highly educated, successful international professionals. I have worked with thousands of single professionals, I’m passionate about dating and relationships and want to help people find love.
I care deeply and work from the heart and my clients feel this.
I’ve spent over a decade learning about my clients, their needs, blind spots, weaknesses, and strengths and have designed my signature program around this.
I care about clients and am committed to their success. I invest in myself and aim to continuously learn about how to best serve them. Any learning benefits both me and my clients. I also, of course, practice what I preach and have my own coach.
How does this help YOU?
When someone truly cares and has your best interests at heart the value of their help is priceless. Pay attention to the people who really love you and not ‘friends’ who may or may not truly wish for your happiness. That being said, even well-meaning friends and family may give advice that is meant to help but counterproductive to your success. A true professional will be able to guide you through the process no matter how complicated it may seem at times.
With the right mindset and support of a dating coach, many singles find their true love every year.
This is a process that takes continued time, energy, effort, and growth. Most people have fallen in love before, but it didn’t quite work out because they were lacking the comprehensive support that I give my clients.
Success stories of my clients
A recent client of mine, Julie, came to me just after her 63rd birthday. She believed it was too late to find love but after fully committing herself to the process she now has a boyfriend and gushes about how she feels like a teenager again!
Similarly, Simon came to me just over a year ago and was willing to do anything to find love, hoping I had the magic bullet to just introduce him to the right person and have all the work be done. Instead, he committed to doing the work, completed the program and went through what he describes as a ‘life-changing’ experience. He now has a partner, and they are already talking about moving in together.
With the right support you can find true love too. How would your life be different right now if you got to wake up every morning with your soul mate?
Are you committed to finding the right partner and ready to put in the work? Book a free consultation to see if you’re the right fit for my science-based dating coaching programs.
