Summertime is a wonderful time of year for many things – especially vacation. While disconnecting from work for a few weeks is great for productivity and your mental health, it can be horrible for your dating life. So, before you sit back and start sipping an icy Aperol Spritz on a sunny terrace, take a minute to let the special someone you just started dating know that they are still very much on your mind. You can do that easily by sending fun messages that keep your date thinking of you.
Summer if the Best Time to Date
If you’re single and searching for that special person for a lasting relationship, don’t miss an opportunity to go out and meet new people. Summer is a great time to date on apps and in real life. People are more relaxed and there’s plenty of opportunities to go out, enjoy culture, sports, or nightlife.
If you’ve already met someone interesting at the bring of summer, be careful! This is a high risk time for new relationships as people travel and go on holidays. Don’t waste a promising connection and assume you’ll catch up once you and your date are back from a summer break. Take charge of your dating life and make sure this fantastic person keeps thinking of you on those warm, summer evenings!
3 Fabulous Messages to Keep Your Date Thinking Of You
So, what should you text to stay connected to that wonderful woman or man you’ve met recently? If you would like your message to have maximum impact, then send something original and personalized, and forgo “Hi, how are you doing?”
Message 1: Show Them You Remember
“Hi Alison, Greetings from Verbier. Enjoying a glass of Petite Arvine. Isn’t that your favorite?”
Prove to them that you are a good listener by referencing something they shared during one of your dates. End your text with a question and you are almost sure to have a rapid response.
Message 2: Get Flirty
“Hi Frank, I hope you’re you staying cool…and out of trouble these hot summer days :-)”
Depending on their personality (some people are easily offended), tease them with something cute and flirty. Just make sure not to come across as jealous or needy (major passion killers).
Message 3: Make It Personal
“Was just thinking about you and your contagious laugh. Hope you’re well!”
Mention something specific that you appreciate about your date. It could be related to a physical trait, such as their beautiful smile, or their personality, such as their quick wit.
Find Love This Summer
Summertime goes by fast, so you need to enjoy it! Just make sure that you don’t put your budding new relationship on the backburner. Go the extra mile and send occasional messages that keep your date thinking of you. A little personalized hello from time to time … everyone loves to feel remembered.
These short, sweet reminders will ensure that you stay on their mind, and your dating life will pick up where you left off, as soon as you return from your summer break!
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